[MDC-461] simetbox-openwrt-simet-{ma,lmapd}: update for v0.12.0

[MDC-461] simetbox-openwrt-simet-{ma,lmapd}: update for v0.12.0

Update Makefile and patches for simet-lmapd 0.12.0, simet-ma 0.12.0

Combined release 0.12.0 syncs the queue directory to
/var/spool/lmapd/queue